Vikram Kamath

December 15, 2004

What went wrong!

Filed under: General — Vikram @ 17:22

As i mentioned in my last post, I had been in a couple of situation which were not very good to experience. I now sit and figure out how I would have infulenced others around me when i plunged myself into those situation. It all comes down to what the occasion was and what was supposed to be discussed or talk about on that occasion. Its about, as some claim the mightly (little) tongue and the need to tame it.

But sometimes, its not the tongue that matters. Its sometimes not the fault of the tougue. Its about what the mind is thinking and whats going on in the brain which is only 2% of the weight of the body. Its the anatomy and the physiology of this brain that effects the tougue. The brain is the thing which everyone is trying to conquer in the present date.

So as i said the brain or the mind is what that matters. If its not stressed then everything around is fine. But when its stressed and its thinking about a whole lot of things, it sometimes tends to get a little unstable for sometime. There might be situation where it behave like an volcano waiting to burst out.

To add to that if there is a social gathering with lots of inebriating liquids, it might be a catalyst to what your tougue is put out. Sorry, its the brain which does it. It just needs one more catalyst. A “bad topic” of discussion. Its after that when things start going bad. You never know where that discussion will take you, and what it will make your tongue put out and by no means your brain can control it.

The only thing you can do is get up next morning and try to recall what went wrong and who paid the price. Its sometimes difficult to manage the next few days after that, when you try to figure our things that went wrong and regret about it.

This is something what many people have gone through. It might be normal. But for some its not as normal as it may seem to be. It brings a change in them. A change for GOOD!


Good To be back

Filed under: General — Vikram @ 10:06

Its been over a month since I posted anything on my blog. There have been a lot of things going on around me that kept me away from my blog.

Some of these things were not so very good to experience. But, I console myself by accepting the fact that we all learn from our mistakes. But I guess sometimes somewhere we tend to forget our mistakes at that moment due the influence of some other agents, may it be stress, frustration or any such thing. Thats something I need to work on.

Apart from those mistakes and the lessons learnt, there are some good things hapenning too, which i am excited about and thats the reason I am going home for Christmas. This Christmas day would be very important for me personally and I am looking forward to it positively.

I am indeed quite happy to be back and will continue to be around.

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